"When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years." - Mark Twain
I often think about that quote in reference to my Dad. Though, the numbers are a little off, the quote still tells the message. As I’ve gotten older, the more things I wanted to prove to my Dad were wrong; I merely ended up just proving him right.
I remember as a kid my Dad would sit at the table in our little house on Fifth Street in Roscommon, MI sipping his tea, looking out the large window that overlooked a vacant lot next to our house and he would set his cup down and say, “I have a theory…” then he would just prattle on about stuff that my kindergarten brain had any idea of, besides, I was playing with my action figures.
I remember often making fun of my Dad because he’s an impulsive man, often acting without thinking. Purchasing gadgets and trinkets and things we didn’t need but tickled his fancy and he wanted to have them. A trait I’m sad to say, my Wife, Sarah has to put up with on an almost daily basis from me. (Though to be fair, I have thus far NOT purchased the “Sham-wow”.)
Even as I grew later into my teens I would mock my Dad’s choices of television. He was a big fan of “Connections” with James Burke. I used to hate that show as I often felt if the TV was on it should be used to make you laugh, as there was enough sadness and forced learning in real life. Now I wish Connections was still ran some where on TV. (Side note: I found it on YouTube; check it out, fascinating show.)
When my Dad left my Mom in my mid 20s, well I never stopped loving my Dad but, I will say I was very, very, very angry. He was the guy, who always told me to do things, “The Cowboy Way” and I felt that what he did was NOT “The Cowboy Way”. However, my Dad is happy and that makes me happy. My Dad has bailed me out more than a few times in my life, he’s the reason I’m a CENA and has always been there when I needed him. And yet, I can’t seem to remember to send him a birthday card or go visit as much as I should. Even though he doesn’t read it, this blog is my salute to him, he’s done a good job of help making me the man I am today, I only hope I do as good a job with Corbin.
Now if excuse me, I have to price Sham-wows…